Split from: Cyberhugs for Candy

[Lonewulf]

Since I'm hardly a friend and do not like how Candy has been attacking certain people, I think I'll refrain.

[Lance]

Then just walk on by...

There is no need to even comment.

This is a "if you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all" kind of thread.

[Candy]

I think I've figured out the problem with the co-worker and a certain poster(s) here. They are projecting their behavior onto me (and others they don't like). This poses a lot of communication issues.

For example, when I say, "I like your shirt". They hear, "Why are you making fun of my clothes"? The conversation then goes into an entire different direction. It's just the oddest thing.

Since the co-worker and certain poster(s) here are quite charming with other folks, this behavior gets totally ignored. It's almost as if it's acceptable behavior. Then I am the bad guy for speaking out about the disrepectful behavior.

This is why I get so frustrated. I figured if I can't beat them, then I will join them in the "fun". Well, this has back fired, too. It's like a no win situation.

[Lonewulf]

I edited my pseudo-flame because this thread, after all, is not a good place to directly attack you.

I'll just suffice it to say that I do not agree with your assessment of me, and I really encourage you to take a step back and look at yourself some too.

I'm sorry that you're falling under the effects of stress, but quite frankly, you are not an innocent.

Also, I do not appreciate your attempt to talk about me by referring to me as "a certain poster(s) here". Everyone pretty much knows who you're referring to, and if you have something to say to me, go ahead and say it to my face.

[Lonewulf]

For the record, the second post I made in the thread was in responce to what she said in reference to me.

[Nighthawk]

Yes, and now Candy's and your post have been split and merged here.

Candy, when posting semi- or outright flames please post them in this area.

Wulf, if you find any other such post from anyone please let the admin or mods know and we will take care of it.

Thank you,

Now..... to your corners and at the sound of the bell...... :wink:

[Lonewulf]

Well, this would be the time to flame, wouldn't it?

I just want Candy to answer some questions, to be honest. I'll once again again point out this thread.

It's a rather pertinent question.