Superluminal wrote:So, if I'm walking across a parking lot at night, and see a black person off to the right and a white guy off to the left and I feel more wary of the black, does that make me a bad person?
I don't think so. I've had similar experiences.
Oddly, I never really socialized with a black person until high school. There was only one black person in my graduating class of 272. Carmen was super shy back in 1984. I migrate toward shy people, so I got to know her pretty well.
Coincidently, she works for United Airlines as a flight attendant. She lives on the East Coast. We hooked up a few years ago, while she was in Chicago. 8)