Bill_Thompson wrote:The point I was making was to live a life of purpose or to sell out. In other words, I was asking Lonewulf if he had to choose between sticking to a principle or to cave in and go with the flow which would he choose. If sticking to a principle meant ridicule or even harm to himself, would he stick to having a meaningful life or making friends.
See, you can do both.
Let's say I talk to someone that's religious, but is a nice person. Now, if I talk down to her, I won't make a friend. If I show I respect her views, but disagree and give my POV (when it's appropriate), and she gives her own, we both can come to a mutual understanding.
A fundamentalist Christian that would want to go out of her way to kill people that worked in an Abortion Clinic is someone I would not want to have as a friend -- or a fundie that wants to continually repress homosexuals. But a moderate Christian I simply disagree with the views of, but is otherwise intelligent, I would be respectful of.
That was a real case, too. Met a mexican gal here, and we had a lot of common ground. I did not let a disagreement impair me, nor go out of my way to take "shots" at her -- which you have done constantly to others.
Further, if I went into a messageboard she owned, or the house she owns, and made a ruckus and caused a lot of problems, I would accept being banned or having my account suspended (or, in the case of her house, being kicked out). See, that's because it's her property, and I would be respectful of her and her property.
I would not force my way back into her house or her forum, and try to cause more trouble. You would. I would not go into her Blog and try to make her life even more difficult. You would.
And that is what makes us so completely different. And that is why what you do is
wrong. You cannot argue this point, you can only dig yourself more into the pit you have created for yourself.
I do not try to make friends with people I truly disagree with -- those that I really don't like, for instance. I do not like you or Candy, and what you do to others -- how you expect everyone to bow down before you and show you complete and rapt attention, and always do what you want them to do.