My COMPLETELY LAYMAN thoughts on the big bang and dark matter are along these lines...
They can determine from measuring motions of things like galaxies that they ACT like there is some unseen mass. They posit "dark matter" as an explanation. I would say that the galaxies act like a mass was operating in them, but it doesn't have to be little undetectable particles.
MY visualization is akin to the 'brane thing. I imagine for a moment flatland, a two-dimensional universe. Within that plane, physics works as we'd expect. Now further imagine we add a large ball of lead or some other large mass, and hold it a fraction of a millimeter from the 2-D surface. To the flatlanders, it would be totally undetectable. But this mass would affect the objects in flatland. I have it centered on the middle of flatland. Objects throughout flatland are attracted to the center point then, gravitationally. The closer they get to the center, the stronger the attraction until they get right under it. At that point, the graviational attraction would be 90 degrees from flatland and thus zero there - to them. Oh there'd be a curve to it. Most places the vector angle to the mass would be close enough to zero as not to matter. AS we got close enough, at a certain angle attraction would peak, then fall off to zero. What I call a volcano curve on the graph.
My point is not that this is actually what happens, but it fits within multidimensional systems, and more importantly requires no magic parts. It only suggests that unseen masses we SEEM to be seeing the effects of are simply removed in the direction of dimensions beyond the three we normally can detect.
Of course in my thought example, it was a two dimensional world with the hidden mass separate in a third dimension. In our world it would be a mass removed in a fourth dimension, separate from our normal three.
SO I have no trouble with dark matter. I believe entirely when they say the starts in the galaxies couldn;t move the way they do with only the star mass that is visible to us. And if something along the lines of my hypothesis were the case, then we will never "detect" dark matter, we will only be able to measure its effect.
That doesn't mean we can't gather evidence to support or refute such an idea.
I have talked to others about the big bang, and a common question is "if the universe is expanding, what is it expanding into?" They don't get that it is our universe expanding, not just a fence moving outwards in the already existent meadow.
I am OK with the big bang. I expect the theory will be adjusted as more is learned. That's OK. If we waited untilk every question was answered and no doubt remained on anything, then nothing would ever be done.
Sometimes, I think science should say simply, “We do not know. We cannot fully explain. But, we are still investigating.”
KLA2, they Do say that. They say that ALL the time. But that doesn't require them to keep quiet and never discuss what they are thinking. No scientist says that the big bang and dark matter theories are absolute and unquestioned. But those things are the working theories they are striving to either bolster or find the faults in. When scientists make a claim, the firtst thing that happens is the rest of the scientific community tries to duplicate their results and find any faults.